10 Tips for Communicating with an Alzheimer's Patient December 15, 2016

Ever feel like your loved one is ignoring you or that you just weren't getting through to your loved one? Try some of these tips to see if they help. 

1. Make eye contact. Always approach them face-to-face and make eye contact. Use their name if you need to. It is vital that they actually see you and that their attention is focused on you. Read their eyes. Always approach from the front as approaching and speaking from the side or behind can startle them. 

2. Be at their level. Move your head to be at the same level as their head. Bend your knees or sit down to reach their level. Do not stand or hover over them - it is intimidating and scary. They can't focus on you and what you are saying if they are focused on their fear. 

3. Tell them what you are going to do before you do it. Particularly if you are going to touch them. They need to know what is coming first so that they don't think that you are grabbing them. 

4. Speak calmly. Always speak in calm manner with an upbeat tone of voice, even if you don't feel that way. If you sound angry or agitated, they will often mirror that feeling back to you and them some. 

5. Speak slowly. Speak at one half of your normal speed when talking to them. Take a breath between each sentence. They cannot process words as fast as non-diseased people can. Give them a chance to catch up to your words. 

6. Speak in short sentences. Speak in short direct sentences with only one idea to a sentence. Usually they can only focus on only one idea at a time. 

7. Only ask one question at a time. Let them answer it before you ask another question. You can ask who, what, where and when, but NOT why. Why is too complicated. They will try to answer, fail and get frustrated. 

8. Don't say "remember". Many times, they won't be able to do so, and you are just pointing out to them their shortcomings. That is insulting, and can cause anger and/or embarrassment. 

9. Turn negatives into positives. For example say "Let's go here" instead of "Don't go there". Be inclusive and don't talk down to them as if they were a child. Respect the fact that they are an adult, and treat them as such. 

10. Do not argue with them. It gets you nowhere. Instead, validate their feelings, by saying "I see that you are and(sad, upset, etc...). It lets them know that they are not alone and then redirect them into another thought. For example, "It sounds like you miss your mother (husband, father, etc...). You love them very much, don't you? Tell me about the time..." Then ask for one of their favorite stories about that person. 


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